“If you only had a boyfriend…”

My mother's solution for all my angst from my teen years to my late thirties was, "If you only had a boyfriend..." ┬áIt used to tick me off ┬áright before it started to bore a hole to the core of my being. In retrospect, I can understand why my mother felt that a man would…

Life on the Cusp

Cusp. One word. Two definitions. Both summarize my existence. When God was mapping out my life he must have had a geometry book in one hand and instructions for creating a balance beam in the other. So which definition is best suited to me? The one that says cusp is a point of transition (as…